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My pal met a "perfect" guy but his friends are trying to ruin their relationship!! Should she give up?
He is great fun and she is not complaining in the intimacy department. The problem is his friends. The guy is well off and runs a sucessful company. His two best friends are jobless and survive on running errands for him. He does everything for them. Pays for lunch, allows them to drive his car which he fuels and even pays for them to accompany him to the gym!!! They never give him space!They have even taken to anwering his mobile phone when he is not around and this pises her off (hell they piss me off too!). Sometimes he shows up on dates with them (goodness!) and whenever they hang out; clubbing; he pays the bills! Once she was out with us and some guys having a drink and we met them, and they called her boyfriend and made it look like she was out on an exclusive date & they fought. She feels like they are threatened by her and want her out! He even takes trips with the guys on the s'tims instead of her. She wants to leave the the guy, I say put those scrubs in their place. You?
If you friend really love this guy and feels a deep connection with him then she should do exactly what I did...tell his friends to bugger off and find a life. Don't still bother to go through the boyfriend to get the message across - go straight to the source! Also, you as the best bud, should stay out of the way when she decides to go this route - be there for her when she needs it because it's going to be tough but generally try to steer clear so she and the boyfriend can work this out together and come to a solution. When I started going out with my boyfriend - his best friend - now ex-best friend tried to break us up at ever opportunity. He tried to ideas into my boyfriends head - and the first one they always go for is possessiveness. He tried to make him cheat on me. They worked together too and they would come home at 3 or 4 in morning because they went for drinks after work. They would go clubbing without me - and have you seen the clothes some girls wear? I just got fed up one day and told his friend in front of my boyfriend that he is jealous of our relationship, he is pathelogical liar who is only interested what makes him happy - whether or not me and boyfriend have finally find love. I told him he must move out of my boyfriends house and get a life of his own because this situation is not working. Of course, I was angry and I had reached my limit with this situation so there a few obsenities. My boyfriend was in shock. Of the friend denied the whole thing so the next week was terrible. Then I figured out that the best way to get rid of this idiot would be to make my boyfriend see him through my eyes so I had to get sly and point out all faults - eg, he always tries to dress the same as my boyfriend, he was a leech, untidy - my boyfriend hates untidy people. So she must basically point out all there faults but only in a suggestive way - don't pound the idea into his head - say what needs to said at the right time and let him digest that - things will change.
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